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Relationship experts say perceived sexual compatibility (as in, how well you think you guys work out sexually) can make or break a relationship.

Maybe she has a secret fetish she still hasn’t shared with you; maybe you’ve been afraid to tell her you’re intimidated by how often she wants sex.

That's not to say you can't make it work, just that you're better off knowing where each of you stand.

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Because learning about your partner’s communication style, especially when he/she wants to talk about something that’s bothersome, helps prevent big blow-ups down the road.

Relationship expert Rebecca Hendrix writes on The that it’s useful to think back to a recent quarrel and analyze it to see how each partner approached the situation differently.

The same goes for your thoughts on starting a family.

If you’re just not into the idea of having kids and you find out that your partner wants a minimum of two, you may start to rethink the future of the relationship.

So if you hate cooking, go ahead and ask your partner if he/she would prefer to take charge in the kitchen, while you agree to wash the dishes afterward. Having sex with someone else in the bed you share with your partner? It’s worth having a sit-down discussion about what exactly constitutes cheating in the context of your unique relationship. Aaron Ben-Zeev writes on Psychology that people have different ideas about whether a virtual connection is actually an instance of infidelity if there’s no in-person interaction. The truth is, you can totally love someone from a different cultural or religious background, but that doesn’t mean your different upbringings won't prove challenging at times.Pictures’ comedy “CRAZY, STUPID, LOVE.” a Warner Bros. " data-medium-file="https://scstylecaster.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/crazy-stupid-love-movie-image-ryan-gosling-emma-stone-02.jpg? That’s why figuring out what to talk about ahead of time with a list of good first date questions and conversation starters is so important. Are you more of a TV person, or do you prefer movies? Depending on the above answer, ask what they’re watching, or what they’ve seen lately. w=1024" class="wp-image-346491 size-full" src="https://scstylecaster.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/crazy-stupid-love-movie-image-ryan-gosling-emma-stone-02.jpg? w=1024&h=683" alt="first date questions" width="1024" height="683" srcset="https://scstylecaster.files.wordpress.com/2015/03/crazy-stupid-love-movie-image-ryan-gosling-emma-stone-02.jpg? Have you traveled anywhere cool lately/do you have any trips coming up? Some of these questions may seem silly at first, but they can be very telling. Anyone who’s seen an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond knows that we don’t always get along with our significant other’s family.In fact, let’s be honest: Sometimes our in-laws (or almost-in-laws) can drive us up the wall.There are all kinds of relationships with all kinds of boundaries, so make sure to figure out what yours are before someone gets hurt. In fact, even if you two are from nearly identical backgrounds, you can still have developed different cultural and religious values.

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