She may have said, “I want to know more about what turns you on.” For all I know, she could have told me that she, too, had wandering eyes and wanted to negotiate a “hall pass.” Could I have handled that truth?No matter the outcome, honesty would have had created more clarity.I am grateful for Blanton’s search for the truth; I can’t remember highlighting another book more.His advice also points to the danger of blindly following advice without being clear on your goal.The important things will always become clear in good time. The anonymity allowed in online dating tempts some people to lie about any number of things – height, income, age, beliefs, intentions. Worrying about safety issues is a sure way to ruin any potential enjoyment or genuine connection on a date. We hope that these fundamentals help you take some short cuts to happy online dating, personal growth, and a fabulous future relationship!
Even so, there is a big difference between forgivable cosmetic embellishment and devious deception.We see too many people grow frustrated with online dating too easily, and we want to help as many people as we can to avoid that frustration. As TUT readers know, all change begins within yourself. Do it all exactly as you wish, every step of the way. Even in the worst moments, you’re just collecting hilarious stories to tell later. Successful online dating shouldn’t be a burdensome pursuit, but it does require of effort.Here are the most important lessons we learned, to help you embrace your online dating experience – and find far greater success. The most important thing you can learn in a search for love from another, is to love yourself. It should be a time of exploration, excitement, and fun. The Universe is providing an incredible technology at your fingertips, allowing you to meet countless potential romantic interests almost instantly. Part of the journey of dating is not always knowing everything for sure.As I learned the hard way, withholding feelings stands in the way of clarity, depth, and a heart connection.Years ago, my former girlfriend (let’s call her Sally)—who wasn’t living with me but often stayed at my place and used my computer—went online and saw the browser open to You will feel so much better, and find the right matches faster, with total honesty. But even when we have differences, we have to share interests, values, dreams, attitudes, and lifestyle choices in order to have nourishing and lasting relationships. You will inevitably experience both guilt about rejecting others and heartbreak about being rejected during any time spent online dating. There are people out there right now who want to be with someone just like you. Possibly not the first person you meet, and maybe not even the twentieth. Trust that there are more than enough fish in the sea. He is engaged to an amazing woman whom he met online, after several years of online dating. Read more articles by this author These daily emails will remind you of your power and life’s magic, and they’re personalized with your dreams and goals!