The only way to get better and more confident on dates is to just go out on dates. As you go on more dates, you’ll find you start to take it in your stride, you’ll become an old-hand at it. Saskia Nelson is the talent behind the award-winning dating photography business Saturday Night’s Alright.You can find more of her dating advice on her blog or by visiting one of her dating workshops that focus on helping people improve their dating profiles.Life is nice and easy when you don’t push yourself but it doesn’t give you that incredible buzz that you get when you do. Pushing out your comfort zone will probably scare the heck out of you…but then the feeling when you succeed is fantastic. Try and commit to doing something once a day, week or month that pushes you and you’ll find it boosts your confidence to whole, new levels of brilliance.It’s no secret that our past experiences of being ghosted, catfished or dating someone who can’t commit knocks about our confidence.Learning to be vulnerable again, knowing what to wear on a first date, right through to trusting yourself to fall in love with the right person are all fears we face when wanting to find love again.
They will see the you that you’re projecting so you might as well make sure you’re projecting the best version of you, whether it’s real or not.So here are 5 dating advice tips to boost your confidence and get you ready to date again: The longer you hold onto the hurt of men who couldn’t commit or were players, the more you hinder yourself from moving forward.We can’t change the past but we can choose to build a happier present.It almost doesn’t matter if you believe them or not at the beginning, the very act of saying them in your head and drowning out the inner critic will make you believe them.Initially you’ll have to make a real conscientious effort to do this, but with practice it will get easier and easier.Don’t look to others for validation, just know that you’ll do the right thing for you.